It takes 2 to tango

A couple that my wife and I know has been together for 32 years, raised 2 kids, made a house a beautiful home. And we just found out that they are getting a divorce. Seems they have not been intimate in 8 years, something that I think is caused by their mutual alcoholism, and the …

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Say what?

Open communications is one of the most important parts of a successful relationship. It is also the easiest thing to loose in a relationship. Imagine the scene - you're at a "speed dating" meetup and you've got 30 seconds to make a good first impression. Most people will open with general interests like "I enjoy …

Sex is addictive

  I'm reminded of what the announcer at the original Woodstock concert once said "I don't think I can cum any harder". As the body ages, it can't climax as well as it used to. Men reach their peak at approximately age 18 while women reach their peak at approximately 35. And from there, it's …

Just like in the movies

Message To My Girl, by The Split Enz: Now I wake up happy Warm in lovers embrace. No one else can touch us While we're in this place. That's the lyric that was running through my head many years ago, when I was dating one gal that I truly loved. We had just spent all …

Statistically speaking

It's been said that statistics can be used to prove or disprove anything in this world. It's also been said that most people are involved in 10 relationships before they find "the one". Unfortunately, they don't say how involved those relationships are.... one night stands, moderate friendships, full-time lovers, or any combination in between? And …

Living in a world of fantasy

  Variety is the spice of life, so what's your fantasy? What turns your crank, Frank? Some folks dress up or role play, to enhance their sexual experience. Some folks like pain. Some like the danger of engaging in sex while in public. The list of possibilities is long and varied. What's my fantasy? I …

Let’s talk about pr0n

  There are always at least 2 sides to every story, and you can use anything for good or for evil. Some people say that porn is degrading to the people who are performing (especially the women). On the other hand, you can learn a lot about positions, preferences, and people by watching porn. Someone …